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millennial clothing crisis: fashion trends, shopping habits & outfit choices

September 06, 2023 Tori & Chanel Season 2 Episode 6
millennial clothing crisis: fashion trends, shopping habits & outfit choices
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millennial clothing crisis: fashion trends, shopping habits & outfit choices
Sep 06, 2023 Season 2 Episode 6
Tori & Chanel

But what will we wear?! Yes, the girls are excited for fall; however, the change in seasons is bringing on some real feelings about their current fall wardrobe. Maybe it’s a result of the pandemic, maybe it’s the fact that she’s a Millennial, but Tori is super confused about what she should be wearing this fall and Chanel is ready to talk her out of this clothing crisis. Perhaps the answer is a capsule wardrobe… but before they tackle the topic of outdated fashion trends, they recap some outstanding items (and straight up false information) from last weeks’ episode. In this episode, Tori & Chanel attempt to answer the questions: what do you wear out? what are the latest fashion trends? and what the heck is happening with skinny jeans and low-rise jeans? If you're feeling confused about the current trends and styles, you'll be glad you listened to this episode!

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But what will we wear?! Yes, the girls are excited for fall; however, the change in seasons is bringing on some real feelings about their current fall wardrobe. Maybe it’s a result of the pandemic, maybe it’s the fact that she’s a Millennial, but Tori is super confused about what she should be wearing this fall and Chanel is ready to talk her out of this clothing crisis. Perhaps the answer is a capsule wardrobe… but before they tackle the topic of outdated fashion trends, they recap some outstanding items (and straight up false information) from last weeks’ episode. In this episode, Tori & Chanel attempt to answer the questions: what do you wear out? what are the latest fashion trends? and what the heck is happening with skinny jeans and low-rise jeans? If you're feeling confused about the current trends and styles, you'll be glad you listened to this episode!

We want to hear from you! Email us at gladwetalkedpodcast@gmail.com

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hello everyone hi welcome to collab Talk podcast I'm Chanel and I'm Tori and
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today we are talking about clothing you never do that what do you mean like
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say what we're talking about at the top I'm just ready to go that's new I think it's just top of mind because
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like it's something I do every day and I'm constantly having feelings about it we're having a clothing crisis we are
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and we want to talk about it we will but to your point I think before we get into it
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maybe we should do some outstanding items yes okay did you listen to the Jonas Brothers
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episode I mean did you listen to the episode I did I did listen to it when I was editing it
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um but yeah I don't listen after I edit uh what yeah you you don't listen I don't listen to
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our podcast okay this is not a good thing Chanel well I listened to the whole thing as
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I'm editing and then I listen to your part when you help edit so I've listened to it I listened to it like multiple
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times I listen to it on Buzz Sprout when we upload it oh and then that's it I'm so I'm so tired of our voices by the
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time I'm done editing I just well I mean maybe because I do social Clips yeah I'm like constantly like watching and like
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listening and trying to get time stamps and stuff wow wow speakers out okay well that's why we
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don't have one more view or one more lesson when I go look at the stats anyway
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um I did listen to a few songs from Joe Bros they were good okay yeah I don't know if I would like put it on myself
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but I liked Groove into it while it was on okay my mom liked it she said she was
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dancing in the kitchen okay yeah it's good like it's definitely different it's good you still feel the Jonas Brothers
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Vibe you do but it's good oh I need maybe I need to listen more in depth
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yeah I think you need to do that you're not you're not happy with it like okay now that we know that I'm the number one
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fan yeah you're like wait what you're not jumping on the bandwagon with me yeah I'll listen again okay okay
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sounds good well then I'll do another update with you when you do listen Okay the real way okay okay
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um the Suburban so last episode I claimed that the Suburban got its name for like Suburban soccer moms which is
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just completely false I believed you I know it sounds legit it did it sounds like that could be it I thought it was
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yeah but I went to light it up I made it up um but I went to Wikipedia and I checked
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like what's the history on the Suburban and a lot of information came up but the
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the take-home notes is that the Suburban um the name of it is used to indicate a
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windowed station wagon type body in a commercial frame whatever that means
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it's like a station wagon pickup truck hybrid oh okay and so you can put a lot of stuff in it and then it's the longest
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automobile nameplate in the world interesting yeah so that's the that's the fact on that so it's not for uh moms
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in the suburbs no but it is but it's not it is but it's not yeah okay cool it's a
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it's a car thing okay yeah you don't have a car no I don't have a car do you wish you had a car sometimes yeah just
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like when you have to rent cars if we're driving like what do you use to rent cars well we're going to only Cape Cod
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next weekend and then but like geez hurts or what do we use yeah um Expedia kite or we just rented one
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from Avis have you done the Zipcar thing yes I have a Zipcar membership what is it seven dollars a month oh that's not
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bad well then you have to pay for the car though oh I thought it was like seven dollars you can get a car but you can get it hourly which is like nice if
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we like if we ever like go to stores we need to bring stuff or when we went to go pick up Seb we rented a car through
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Zipcar and it's like there's like a parking lot around the corner from us so we can just pick up the car and how do you get the keys it's on your phone it's
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like an app and you like put it you like it's like a sensor and it unlocks it yeah and you can like press on the thing
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like unlock lock so there's no keys there's no keys what and the car goes the car goes
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it's kind of wild actually that's really crazy yeah we have a car I know way to
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rub it in you're like um cool we have a car no but I kind of want this app why
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don't they have this app for everyone's cars I just I know actually that's true you know what I mean really cool I we
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can start our car fun more fun but we can't make the car the phone I mean what did you just say we can start the car
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from our phone okay like we can Auto started and lock it unlock it get like GPS locate it oh we have a Hyundai uh
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Tucson which I don't know if it's Hyundai or Hyundai I say Hyundai I don't
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know um but you can't make it go it's not like you can oh you know I mean I'm
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pretty sure we don't use keys because there's always a push button and it's just like the sensor it's just like my car my car my phone has to be in the car
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and then just push the start so it like replaces we don't have keys either but we have the fob thing
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this is interesting the only thing with Zipcar I do love it it's so convenient we like we it's worth the seven dollar
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membership I think because we do use it quite often the only thing is that sometimes the car smell like cigarettes
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I know is there a rule there's a rule but people don't follow it because people have no self-awareness oh no yeah
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no concern for other people ugh I would hate that if it smells like cigarettes tell me about it it's horrible and
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there's one that's around the corner from us and it had new car smell for like the longest and then someone smoked in it and now it's terrible oh no I
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don't know what are you can you report it yeah I do report it every time there we go she got in the car again did
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you get any money back this is like oh my God okay you're gonna become like the face of
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Karen you're the travel Karen good job
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why is it always travel stuff like contemplating about yeah you're gonna get like a reputation yeah honestly you
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should just create a like an Instagram account where you just like write and review my free travel experience yeah
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I'm sure you would get like priority treatment I know but honest idea like
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why are all these things happening to me why do bad things happen to good people that's the question of the century
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Chanel yeah um also I guess it's like almost fall what I don't know I feel like summer
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flew by and I even said this last weekend and like I said with the clothing like I'm just like I'm I don't
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know about you but I'm feeling like in a clothing rut I feel like since covet I'm like I don't know what to wear excuse me
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Rudy that is not your toy as he pulls out a
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shirt which I don't know why there's a shirt in his clothing bin I mean in his toy bin how do I get there I don't know
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clothing bin and Ronnie's Toy Bin there's no shirt to be fair okay um I just I don't know I feel like since
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covid I just don't know what to wear I don't know what feels comfortable on me like I'm starting to go do things I've
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been like in a legging t-shirt I don't know I feel like just I'm not ready to
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one transition into fall two start getting dressed for fall because I just
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feel like my fall wardrobe's outdated I don't know what people are wearing anymore and I just don't know what to do
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there's always also that weird period in between fall like went before it turned really cold and then when it's like cold
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in the morning and then warm in the transitionals and you're like what the heck do I wear is it so appropriate to
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wear a skirt with no tights like when do you introduce tights like it honestly is it's it's hard yeah okay number one
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question sure like what do you wear when someone's like okay we're going out
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tonight I don't know let me finish I don't know no I don't know
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okay what do you like gravitate to okay this is what I have
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historically gravitated to like when we would go out and stuff and I know we did our whole New York City era it's like I
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would wear skinny jeans because skinny jeans were still cool and maybe like it was an unfinished hem or whatever yeah
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um I would wear skinny jeans like a crop top a bodysuit tank top situation okay and like Adidas
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sneakers my hair would be straight or like Curly yep who bearings yeah like that was it
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yeah right what would you wear I was similar but I would wear a lot of like quote unquote going out tops what where
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are going although the green time on top I would wear like I wear like uh a lot
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of high neck shirts yeah that were like flowy with skinny jeans or I would do a bodysuit with boyfriend jeans I never
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felt comfortable doing a bodysuit and skinny jeans I would do the Body Studio yeah you did but I didn't feel
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comfortable doing that I feel like it didn't balance me out um because like I have big hips and like big chests so it was just like too tight
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too much but actually that's fine but like honestly it's funny when you like see an outfit on someone and you're like
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if I wore that I would be I would look like I'm revealing too much yeah and someone else can wear it and look
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completely fine it's really funny I have a bigger chest too not like you have a
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thank you you're welcome but I'm a 34d yeah and I definitely like there's some
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shirts that just don't yeah they're not either structured for me and it was funny because we went shopping together at Bloomingdale's yeah looking at
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dresses I'm like this is really pretty too bad our boobs would be all over the place that was like our number one thing when we were looking for dresses we're
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like how is this gonna fit my boobs what what bra am I wearing because you're like oh this one's good and I was like it's backless like I need a bra
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and it's unfortunate I almost wish that like dresses came with like
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I don't want to say like more conservative that's not the word but like I wish to lick the same fabric
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or pattern came in like a different style you know how like you can go to a wedding and have the Bridesmaids have
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like same material same color but there's different styles to it yeah you wish normal dresses did that yeah halter
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high neck yeah so like if you're shopping for a wedding guest and you're like this is really pretty but but it's
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backless yeah or I want a higher neck yeah like you could have that I don't know so are you creating a clothing line
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I am right now okay cool what would you wear like dated it because we talked about going out but like what were you wearing day to day like to work or like
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on you know like back in the day yeah like yeah what was your uniform like and what is your uniform now I guess what
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was like what were you comfortable wearing because I just I'm sorry I have I'm going off on a rant like I'm just feeling super Millennial
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I'm like noticing gen Z's like we said the hot new thing yeah and I just like the styles are different I sound like
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okay all right let's let's take a breath all right I'm sorry I'm really upset about it breathe it and now let's
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breathe through the word fashion I shouldn't be feeling this way I should know what's happening I've always felt
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like I couldn't like really get a pulse on like what I love wearing always my
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Style's always been kind of all over the place I don't know if I like to be like a little bit more like Meghan Markle or
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if I'm a little bit more grungy or you know what I mean like I've never really okay you and grungy in the same you know
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what I mean it's make no sense what's the word I'm looking for trendy I don't know I don't know what are you going for
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when you say grungy like not grungy but like say grungy I'm thinking like Avril Lavigne no not her no like more Street
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Wear yeah yeah okay it's like casual streetwear yeah yes okay casual streetwear but I'm also like not as put
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together as Meghan Markle but I want to be but I also have this other side that I'm like a little bit more streetwear
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anyway okay I used to wear to work I saw a little black skinny jeans with tops
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that seems right and I would also wear lots of blazers which I still do
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um and then I would wear like booties sandals or sneakers like a mix of those
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what were you wearing back in the day yeah and like kind of before before and like when we were
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still the hot new things yeah I was wearing a lot of black skinny jeans like darker skinny jeans I think I would wear
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like skirts and like long maxi skirts were like a thing remember like the maxi
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skirt kind of era maxi dresses like that's not a thing anymore they are but like I just feel like they're different
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like yeah okay Finish finished I feel like there were a lot more patterns like
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yeah jumpsuits remember like The Romp I've already got his toys
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Brody I'm sorry come here come here come here with it I feel like rompers and remember
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jumpsuits were a kind of a big thing is that what you were wearing I had rompers
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I had not rompers I had jumpsuits I had dresses like I I would I was a
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button-down person I'm still a button down I'm wearing a button down now but it was a little bit more fitted like we would ask I would do like a skinny jean
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with a tucked in like Oxford shirt or button down I did that I used to do that
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early 20s yeah there's a lot of French tucks happening I did a lot of French tucks a lot of button-down with skinny
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jeans I just feel like the clothes are different now yeah so let's talk about now so okay what are you like wearing
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day to day now when you go into the office when you're like going out running errands like what are you wearing I wear
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jeans and what kind of jeans all made wall jeans so they're not really necessarily skinny anymore no but I just
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started feeling like my um my perfect vintage one of them feels like a skinny jean and like this feels
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too skinny because I feel like everything is more loose fitting and like I'm just noticing that and I'm like
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this looks like a skinny jean my mind does too actually yeah perfect vintage and I'm like I this makes me feel like a
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millennial and there's nothing wrong with being a millennial okay but it makes me not feel like trendy okay you
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know but at the end of the day like you have to also dress how you feel comfortable like I still wear skinny jeans you do yeah what kinds not like
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super skinny but I wear ones that I can cuff like I'm not wearing them to the ankle anymore but they are like skinnier
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than like layered or gen Z ones and I just cuff them okay and I'll wear like a loose top with it okay
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um because I just those are the jeans that I like and that fit me well I'm doing a mix like I am still wearing like
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Madewell jeans also but I think you have to wear what you want like don't be like
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but I know trendy I don't want to know what I want to wear I want what I want to wear are leggings and a t-shirt right
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and that's just I'm comfortable in that I feel my best in that because that's what I covered really let me wear my
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workout clothes all the time right and that's what I I mean that's comfortable um but now that we're like back in the
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office and everything I in like going out and doing things I just don't I feel like I don't know what I want to wear
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like when we went out the other weekend I just didn't know I was going through
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my closet and I'm like I I don't know I think like we were dressing one way and
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then covet hit and then now we still have all those clothes and like I've gotten rid of my black skinny jeans because I don't really wear them anymore
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either um but I do wear like a lot of like wide leg pants yeah like whether you have
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like a pair of flare jeans like trousers yeah like trousers with like t-shirts and sneakers and like we I'm just saying
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like college and stuff it was like the North jacket with the skinny jeans yeah Ugg boots like we're from that
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generation where there was a uniform and I think there's an air uniform now and but there's more individualness and like
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personality like people it looks very uniform like everyone's kind of essentially wearing the same
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Styles like trousers I feel like it's like a tank top or a body suit like it could be the thing like it's God bless
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you Rudy is very active on this episode he's over there like living he's like I am the guest yeah
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um but I just like I I don't know maybe it's just like I'm not trying them on
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enough I think you need like a day with yourself to like yeah different styles and like see what you feel comfortable
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in and try and lean that way yeah I feel like you wear a lot of jeans and tank tops I do so my this power button Downs
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my summer the summer has been like jeans and like a rib tank top from Madewell I
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have it in like five different colors yeah I think it's like called the bright side tank top yeah we just talked about balance we did oh on summer Essentials
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okay I wear that like every day it's what I'm comfortable in I wear it with like sneakers or like little mule or
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something that's what I'm comfortable in but like now that we're transitioning into fall I'm kind of like
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what is it and I'm not I'm not necessarily like thrilled with that uniform either like I want to switch it
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up like I do feel like it became a uniform and I want to have like more things I would say that is your uniform for sure yeah like you often are wearing
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some kind of high neck tank top yeah or like crop top or something with jeans yeah or like a button down or a button
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down yeah and I have like a few dressings I used to wear skirts more dresses more I don't see you in dresses
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a lot I don't wear them anymore oh okay I just don't know it's hard what I mean are people wearing dresses I feel like I
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tell you what I feel like people wear okay it's these like wide-lit rounds of trousers that you're trying out with pleats yes they're usually like a linen
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or like a tencel which is you know I'm very familiar with tensile yeah it's
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either a linen a 10 cell Blend or like I don't know maybe some polyester I don't know but like they're very airy and
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flowy high-waisted with like a little button that's what I wear like work trousers I might have two pair and I
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really like them they're comfortable and then like people wear like a rib a tight fitted shirt or something gold net
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jewelry you're literally describing my outfit this is the uniform to go to work but what else are they wearing well I I
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honestly it's funny that you say that because I was standing on the corner the other day going to work and I was wearing that outfit next to a girl who's
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wearing that outfit and I saw another girl coming down the street wearing that outfit and I was like is this the new New York City uniform it is because I
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see everybody wearing this everyone is wearing this I think it's a good mix of like casual and professional yeah it's a
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good mix of casual professional but it's also a good mix of gen z a millennial because you have the tight-fitting
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high-waisted but like it's a wide leg it's not skinny like I just feel like it
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encompasses all right so that's why I like wearing it it's a comfortable
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outfit I do like it but what else is there I feel like people are wearing Blazers oversized Blazers yeah which
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also I wear a lot yeah am I trendy I think maybe it's it's really all I wear
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though but that's what I've been wearing always like I haven't really changed my style much but I do feel like there's
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like a more professionalism like yeah there's more it's elevated I just I I
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can't answer like what like Trends are right now because I I feel like I've
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never really paid attention to that I've always kind of just done what I feel is I'm comfortable in yeah because I have
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like I'm very secure insecure about my body and like how I look in clothes so whatever I feel looks good on me and I'm
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comfortable in is really what I've gravitated to always right oh and then I feel like there's this other thing where
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it's like you see influencer girls or whatever and it's
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like they're going to Mykonos and they're traveling it's like I can't wear that in the fall and I'm also not going
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to Mykonos I'm going down to the Garment District to go to work or I'm going in a car to like grab groceries in Target
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like I'm not where am I going yeah but like then I also see this thing where it's like athleisure
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where they have the matching sets yes a lot of matching sets a lot of matching sets it's like biker shorts and like
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crops yep and then like I don't know why but I'm seeing everyone wearing I have an oversized button down right now yeah
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and they like wear this button down over it's either open or like half buttoned and then watch there's a camera oh my
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gosh I know I'm showing then it's like her bras out oh sorry it's like half off
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like it's falling off on one side yeah and it's a choice I'm like that's a choice that's not
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that was that was intentional right so they're like what they're styling themselves and I literally saw someone
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walking down the street like this when I went to get you and I'm like this is this is an accessory it's a look it's a
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look yeah but it's not comfortable it might be it looks comfy it's an oversized shirt I don't know am I like a
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grandma I'm not a grandma grips you're wearing your shirt off your shoulder like we got rips In Those Jeans did you
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put a did you pay someone did you pay for them like that or did you do it yourself I think you're just struggling
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with like what you're trying to be trendy but also comfortable yeah and I
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don't think you found like your Niche yet no so I mean I I'm with you like it's really hard to get dressed I've
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tried I've tend to gravitate toward the same things in my closet and it's always like dresses for work or those pants and
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like a tight shirt and then like something else for when I'm going out but I always wear the same outfits right
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like the other weekend we went out and I wore denim shorts with a Blazer which I
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have worn since like 2018. like I've done that late in 2018. you're you're all you're uniform is a Blazer yeah
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that's true but I've always done like oversized Blazers and jeans or shorts or whatever and like it might not be trendy
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right now but that's what I feel comfortable in true so you have to find what you feel comfortable in you can't worry about Trends you can't worry about
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looking like a millennial you have to just have a appointment and a date with yourself or maybe you go shopping to a
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bunch of stores you try different things on sure I'm like I haven't gone shopping in Forever that's another thing do you
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feel like your shopping habits have changed I feel like I definitely shop at different places because like I used to
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do a lot of Forever 21 and yeah like h m and stuff like that and now I'm doing
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more Asos made well um I went shopping at Bloomingdale's
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recently like more like she got money not really it was like Aqua it wasn't like anything crazy okay
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um but I'm just doing like definitely not the designer stuff at Bloomingdale's Lord Christ remember when I was like can
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we go for contemporary dresses and she's like Ted Baker's upstairs thank you for your help Alice and Olivia
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we're like okay okay we're gonna leave the store yeah no something was not chopping in that
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section so go to Zara Zara doesn't fit me I've I think I've talked about this before yeah like there I don't know what
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their sizing is but it does not fit me yeah I have I've gotten like denim jackets and stuff from
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there but I don't know I'm trying to like do more quality now because I know that I just tend to wear the same things
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so I'm trying to find things that I really like and I spend a little bit more money on it but I'm not as worried
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about outfit repeating as I used to be so like I'll wear it again I really like the idea of a capsule wardrobe which if
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you're not familiar with that that's where you have like a set number of pieces and they mix and match really
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well I think before I was like not I would mix and match kind of but
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like there were certain things that just went with that was one outfit and I really like that because I think
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that way you can accessorize and like do things kind of differently like with
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other ways like maybe switch up your shoes or you switch up the jewelry or a different jacket but I like those like pieces that work and then you can rotate
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them through yes which I think maybe that's what I have to do yeah is build a capsule wardrobe yes I think that's
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exactly what you have to do have like a few pair of jeans you definitely like a few black dresses you definitely like yeah some shirts you're happy with and
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that can like fit with shorts or jeans or whatever yeah I'm just I'm starting to feel like I'm afraid to open up my
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fall clothes they're in like storage right now and I'm afraid because I'm gonna be like all right I know I need to do something
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yeah because I I already know what's in there and I don't think I want any of it yeah and that's how I felt was summer so
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I kind of I got a few pieces mostly my collection of rib tank tops yeah cotton
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tank tops from Madewell um but I just like I haven't been in the mood to spend money on clothes
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yeah me neither um but I think if this is like a crisis you're having like it might be worth it to like slowly build your thing and also
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like Purge and get rid of clothes I know like if you know you haven't oh good if you know you haven't been wearing it if
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you haven't worn it in like a year yeah like I have a closet full of clothes and every time I get ready I'm like I have
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nothing to wear I'm afraid I'm not gonna have anything left yeah honestly like I'm looking through and I'm like I and
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and also I have gone through some body changes yeah I gained weight and I've
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been kind of I I one and I don't want to make I mean I'm super sensitive to body
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image and how people feel I went into covid very in shape very on top of like how I felt about myself and I felt good
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about my body and what position it was and ever since that like moving home with my family and going through
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everything I just haven't been able and have and we've talked I've talked about this like I'm not going to be the same person I was but my that doesn't mean my
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clothes aren't you know the clothes I would wear aren't fitting me the same yeah and then sometimes you keeping things in your closet because you're
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like well one day I can wear it or like yeah if I like just lose 10 pounds I can
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fit that shirt again and it's like even if you did like for yeah I think you
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look great obviously well thank you I understand having that like struggle on yourself and like putting that pressure
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on yourself of like kind of trying to have your body where it used to be yeah but if you feel like even if you like
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lost some of the 10 pounds you want to lose and you still wouldn't wear that shirt like true got rid of it I know and
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I also feel like I have a little bit of body to smart I know no I don't have a little bit I have body dysmorphia yeah and I've always had it like that's kind
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of where my eating disorder stemmed from and I just like I don't know why but I
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like feel like you're exactly like you're saying like someday I'll fit into that and like there's things I'm holding on
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to where I'm like well we'll fit someday and I'm like well why am I holding on to it if it doesn't fit me now when it doesn't feel good now
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why do I care and it's like you're just going through your closet when you're getting dressed and you're just getting
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more upset because you see all these clothes in front of you and nothing like looks good or feels good in your eyes so
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it's not on Trend yeah it's just it's honestly upsetting you more it is so just get rid of it you're right I think
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you should slowly start thinking about like what you find yourself gravitating to yeah in your closet and keep those
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pieces because if I actually looked at my closet there are clothes that I know I have not worn in years but for some
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reason I can't get rid of them do they have like sentimental value some of them like yeah but some of them are just I'm
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like well maybe I'll come back in style or maybe I'll change my style again or like I don't know if it's a quality
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piece I can understand that yeah but I think it's also interesting because like we were the millennial generation we
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were like in college early adults like maybe like finishing up high school whatever like when social media came out
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and then I don't know about you but like everyone started to be like I can't read you couldn't be an outfit repeater yeah
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and you couldn't do it on social media every time you took a picture you had to have a different outfit on you're like oh my God I wore that last week and I
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can't wear it again yeah you know or like oh my God I whatever and then that fast fashion started coming in and we
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were like shopping at Forever 21 and H M and it just got to be so much I literally just said this you know but the quality was so bad okay yeah right
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the quality was like yeah not good so then we accumulated this and remember like we talked about how you came over
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and you cleaned out my closet with me and you're like why would you ever keep this my horoscope skirt yeah yeah Halloween yeah
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um but like I still feel like I still have some of those pieces from that period and I'm like I need to start
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buying more quality things and I have quality things and they do last longer um but I just I guess I have to bite the
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bullet and be like okay this is my 30 year old wardrobe yeah
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um why are you laughing because I literally just said this but that's what you I
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know but I was like building the the fast fashion piece yeah and then I was like I buy more like Madewell I know
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okay I know but I I just I'm empathize I'm emphasizing like what you said the
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quality [Music] I'm congruing with you I know it's just
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funny because you're not like to your point you're just like like I'm just repeating [Laughter]
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um I have a funny story though okay um speaking of millennial um I went to my co-worker's birthday and
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she's turned like 22. and it was it was actually uh this place called downtown
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social and I was like oh I've never heard of it let me look it up and it's where 13th Step used to be in the city
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which if you know we used to if you know you know there was like open bars there we used to do like it was just like one
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of those like Friday night like in your 20s like all the NYU kids would go there yeah it was like fun and like it was
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like the same owners it's like off the wagon Down the Hatch you know like yeah yeah anyways I looked it up and it was
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downtown so she's like I don't know I've never heard of it like I'm gonna go I'm like oh my God oh my God like what a throwback but
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um I didn't know what to wear because I was like I need her to not make fun of me don't worry
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about Trends tell her about this I would like I don't want this gen Z to make fun
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of me okay welcome to the conversation sure because a lot of her gen Z friends were gonna be there so I was like I
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can't like show up in my like skinny jeans to your point okay so you're right it is harder than are you serious okay
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you got me you got me there so I ended up wearing like a crop button down and jean shorts and I was gonna put on
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sandals but it didn't look well it didn't look good so I was just like oh just put on my my sneakers and I got
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there and I told her I was like oh I didn't know if I should wear sandals or sneakers she was like you would not catch me dead in a sandal I was like
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what so gen Z's not wearing sandals they're just wearing they're throwing like sneakers and she has these like
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which like we started this but like those Steve Madden like um platform the ones I have behind you
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yeah like the black ones with like the stretchy yeah she has like the like I've seen a lot of she wears those younger
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co-workers wearing those like a platform shoe yes but like flat sandals they're not doing it wow I feel so now I feel so
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self-conscious when I wear flat sandals because I'm like if I do like a dress and a flat sandal she's gonna make fun
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of me yeah I mean I do it anyway because again it's what I feel comfortable in and I have like now you know she doesn't
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now I know she doesn't wear them wow and I was like you're writing numbers like she could be wearing like the nicest
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outfit and she'll put sneakers on I okay I actually do like this trend so this is something I do like is the sneaker Trend
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I bought a pair of we've been doing that forever with our Adidas Adidas so I've switched on My Adidas because I got with
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the program I'm doing Nike Trend I just watched air oh nice so good I gotta see
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it it was really good um and it made me happy that I bought the Jordans even though he makes money on every shoe sold I'm like you're a
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billionaire but I'm happy about it I'm so happy I'm supporting you yeah um but I bought the Jordans and I like
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wearing them because I've always been a sneaker girl I've always worn my Adidas like or my sneakers I like that me too I
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love a good white sneaker and I do like it like the other day I wore it with a skirt I can wear it with jeans I do like
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that okay in my Birkenstocks oh Lord do you wear sandals I wear Birkenstocks
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that's it though or a mule okay like I will I use like a wedge yeah okay or
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like a little heels like a two no I don't wear flat sandals unless from my Birkenstocks why is that
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um I don't know I just phased them out oh okay all right so you're with the trends I wear a mule yeah like a little
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kitten heel um I wear a little heel not like a kitten heel but like the two inch like
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you know the slides kind of I have like multiple pairs of those
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um yeah I have cowboy boots for the fall which I see those are popular wow I
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don't think I could do a cowboy boot I I Mitch got them for me for my birthday it's what I wanted a few years ago okay
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I've never seen you in a cowboy boot you don't know the story oh all right but I do like okay so maybe this is a Fall
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outfit I do like it's like a pair of jeans my cowboy boots and then an oversized button down okay cute so I do
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like the oversized button down I used to do that with riding boots oh yes me too so it's very familiar yes
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we're like changing it up a little bit yeah it's a little comfortable it's just a little what are we doing with riding boots are we still wearing those yeah
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they changed did they also little booties you know that cut off the ankle booties yeah I wear those they're gone
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no they're not they're dead I'm bringing them back the gen's ears on Tick Tock told me no no now it's like the up above
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your ankle boots oh that's what I wear not the below one you know one the ones that cut off at your ankle oh no I don't
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like those no these are a little bit higher I don't know what you call them yeah I like those the ones above my like right above my ankle bone yeah like a
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different that's what I like kind of I have a pair yeah it's like a Chelsea boot yes a Chelsea boot but with a you
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can have a heel you can have it flat yeah that's what I'm wearing I don't like the ones at the ankle because I feel like it cuts off my leg weird yeah
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did you ever do Doc Martens I don't know her oh Doc Martens are they're super 90s
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but they're like a snooky sneaker boot kind of and they're just leather and dark and I feel like they were a trend
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oh yeah oh like they have a tie yeah no it's not it's not bad no no I'm wearing
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a loafer I feel like really to bring back my word grungy before those I think
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you would be yeah yeah accurate okay yeah so that is grunge okay yeah though I don't wear this no so when you said
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grungy I was like she doesn't mean that I have a pair of snow boots that look like that and they have like fur on them
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cute laughs not crunchy not grungy I would think I'm
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a little bit more grungy than you are yeah you know yes definitely like I I often wear like jeans and like a graphic
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tee um and like sneakers like I would like I'm more tomboyette not tomboy but like
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I'm more like cash okay it's funny you say that because I remember being in like high school and everyone dressed
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very specifically in high school like I forgot how but I started wearing Blazers in high school which probably is like
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unheard of because like yeah I'm president but it was like um it was
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like a gene type Blazer but like a dark navy blue oh I don't know I had I used to wear a lot and I wore like a graphic
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like Aeropostale T-shirt with jeans and sneak in my Converse and it was my
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favorite outfit and I'm like this is foreshadowing it is for the rest of my life I love that it's like a little
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Chanel trying to find her style I had this I remember I had these like pair of
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kind of cargo actually they'd be very entertain right now they were like oh things are coming a light linen kind of
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cargoy pant that would like I don't know it was very comfortable and they had drawstring ties and I would wear that
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with like a they're a black I'd wear that with like a red tank top and I was like I'm I'm popcorn I was like I'm like
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you're actually Avril yeah I was like I am so like goth Rock sorry and then
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there was actually like the emo girls that like had their bangs cut yeah yeah at a super sharp angle with like thick
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eyeliner and like purple but there was an era of like Ashley Simpson yeah and
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like Avril and I don't know who else yeah but like they did dress like that and people even like Hilary Duff had
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like they would wear like the sweat bands on their wrist if those come back I'd help okay so where are you shopping
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these days um I am shopping I don't know I haven't really been so there's a Madewell around
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the corner which I've talked about I think we both love Madewell we do they're just expensive it's like I mean
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it's I I think actually like compared to other brands it's like reasonably priced for the quality and for like what's out
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there like I'd rather they had a button-down shirt for like 88 but they also they often have sales yeah that's
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true they often have a lot of sales okay it's usually like 20 30 15. they'll do sales and I don't know I I feel like
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there's a few other brands that are coming up like everlane I haven't shopped there yet but I'm interested
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um I don't I haven't been to Zara in Forever maybe over a year I I really haven't been shopping other than going
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to Madewell where where are you shopping well I was saying I shop at Madewell sometimes
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um like if they have sales I think or like if I get some like if I like their t-shirt quality yeah um so if I do wear
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like t-shirts and their jeans like yeah just like a casual day um I shop at ASOS A lot I also haven't
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been shopping in a while I did go to Bloomingdale's recently like I said but I feel like I just don't know where to
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go because like the fast fashion like is she in yeah no like they don't fit me
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well they just don't like my body type is not like because it's not quality it's not made for curvier girls
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sometimes just not made wall either it's not gonna last right it's cheap right I
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do think it's like they're like they're large is like not a large yeah so it's really hard to find sizing with those
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types of stores for me especially like Zara and stuff yeah so I don't know I need to find where else am I shopping I
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bought a few things from reformation and it's really it's a lot pricier than what I would want to spend but I I bought a
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skirt and I bought some tops and I really like them do you shop on revolve I haven't in a while so I did shop on
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revolve a few times but I haven't done it I don't know are they size inclusive yes oh okay within the inclusive is
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restricted okay you know what I mean like I think they obviously have a line with Remy beater and they work on clubs
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and they do have more inclusive odd items but I think the industry as a whole like we were talking about earlier
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they have to have more options like you know it's like extended sizes but it's like
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yeah and I think like I would love to see fashion and someday be able just I
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know there's so many different body types we were kind of talking about earlier like I thought I was an hourglass but like you're saying pear
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and it's like this hybrid situation where it's like and I might be found like one size fits all right and it
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might be controversial but like what like how can we make it that like you can find something you like but it feels
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better for your body yeah it's like what is everyone feeling comfortable in
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versus like the trends like how are you dressing so you feel like your best self like it's just we have to like focus
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more on that I think than like what's trendy right now because I just don't think that like baggy clothes like looks
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good on me and that's kind of what's trending it's like the loose oversized like bigger jeans on the bottom like all
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that like big like t-shirt like that stuff doesn't like I just don't look good like that yeah so I have to dress
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for how I feel like most myself so in a blazer always a Blazer he's a freaking Blazer
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what do you wear like in your down time [Music]
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this is my nighttime Blazer this is my going out please I'm leggings all day
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lagging insulted me too yeah or I've introduced biker shorts I've introduced
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them but like with an oversized button down yeah or like a lot of that yeah or like a bigger T-shirt If I'm like
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walking tub or something but leggings I just yeah somewhere
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um I have some pairs from Amazon Athleta
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um my mom got me a pair from Costco that I like really yeah what brand um feline or something okay you know
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there's just like I just like the quality of them which is so weird I have like a bunch of different ones
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um I don't have any like Lululemon or apple yoga but I do want to ramp up my
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workout wardrobe because now that I'm going to Bar I just want to say I can see some muscle definition in your arms
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right when you're yeah cry no I was like noticing the other day
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when you're doing my makeup I was like yeah it looked like I could tell there's some toning oh my
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God stop it you just made my day um so everyone just looks cute to your point they're wearing like the matching
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the matching sets yeah and I'm like damn I gotta I'm wearing like t-shirts like I
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know I have no crop t-shirts oh I had a oh I had a fabletics membership I still
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have it and I've been trying to cancel it for years because like I feel like it they always get me they're like aha you subscribe to another month yeah isn't it
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like a subscription where you like pick out like kind of like fashion pass yeah and you can skip months and stuff but I forget sometimes to skip so I have a
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credit and then I have like I'm trying to get it so I can cancel it because I I don't like to be committed to them like
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I like their products but I'm just like I want to venture out and try new things have you tried aloe yoga no it's
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expensive I want to but it's expensive but I'm not sure like a pair of leggings uh I don't know I can look it up but I
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think they're on par with like Lululemon and um I tried like a few shirts and Sweaty
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Betty and I really like Sweaty Betty um they were really comfortable they've lasted a while but also a little bit
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pricier is Gap in Athleta the same thing yes Gap owns Athleta I have a few stuff
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from them and I actually really like it I do too I actually I have like these rib tops that um they're for workouts you know but I
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feel like they kind of fit into that athleisure like area yes you know like I can wear
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them and like I like them a lot they're really nice so you wear colored leggings I wear black I used to so this is
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actually really funny because I have a pair of like neon pink leggings really I feel like we also during length this
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like I don't know whatever I think I feel like we were like introduced leggings kind of and after like the 80s
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and everything but um after that Whole Decade a Whole Decade but I feel like there were really like knee like we were
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into like wild like camouflage and cheetah ended up now I just wear black I'm never it has never been flattering
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on me oh really I just have large thighs and hip like I never liked how it looked on me yeah I just never felt comfortable
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in it do you remember when we would wear like soft leggings that weren't even like workout leggings they were kind of
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like legging tights ner oh if you're like in college I had leggings
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that weren't even leggings oh like you would wear like a long sweater yes yeah yeah yeah well I wasn't I would never go
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back to that I know it blows my mind how did I do that there was no like slimy like it was like just one elastic around
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it yeah it wasn't even like a waistband it was like here's a like elastic waistband I know you're talking about
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and now it's like here this will sculpt your curves and blah blah blah um aloe yoga leggings are about 128 so
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on par with Lululemon oh my gosh yeah I mean wow okay no no not to them I just
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wow this is why we have money I can't believe people can afford this well they
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can't but they're still buying it and that's why we're in a recession and we're all screwed and have to work three
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jobs okay there's some for like 89. okay that's still expensive that is yeah I I
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would think I'd spend more like 40 50. okay my price range for leggings I yeah
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see and I just told you my mom got me luggings from Costco so there's nothing with that one yeah my
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um so and that's why I like fat the what is it called fashion pass no
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it's like if you pay for the subscription you get like it's like 50 a month yeah and you can skip it but like
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it's like you get a pair of pants and a bra it's like leggings and a bra and you pay 50 you don't have to be extra right
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that's not bad no so that's why I like having the subscription but then you have to remember to skip it and you know me I might do I do need new workout
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clothes so I might look at fabletics I've had them for a long time I had one pair of leggings they actually ripped
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but I did like them yeah when I had them they made my butt look good oh yeah and that's what's most important I've liked
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them I've had them for a while since like I lived in Astoria okay so
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when is that that's like 2015-ish 2016. when fabletics really first launched I
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had them and I need to get rid of them now because they're starting to smell a little funky oh okay so it's been a
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while okay yeah my thing is all of these girls are working out in sports bras my
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boobs would be all over the place where are you wearing um I wear Athleta
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um I got one from Madewell actually oh that was like kind of a tank top sports bra but I have a really hard time
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playing sports bras I could imagine yeah but I have one from Athleta that I love it's like a high neck one the high neck
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sports bras work for me yeah more than like the lower like the regular like a
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high intensity workout bra it's like more sport when I did 305 I used to wear
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a regular bra that I deemed my workout bra and a sports bra on top because it
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was a lot of jumping and I just like needed the support and I have not found a sports bra that like gives you that
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support but I need like variety yeah so I feel like and I want like more cute stuff for bigger chested people like
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bigger chested people deserve to have cute sports bras too I they do and I I have not I mean I already talked about
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my chest and yeah the growls and they're definitely like I need more support like
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I'm not getting by with a low low like support bra and I have found that like
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the fabletics ones are pretty supportive okay I'm gonna look at fabletics maybe I should keep it and they do have cute matching set things like they're a
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little bit more on Trend okay and 50 is not bad no it's not when you think about it and it's Lululemon Aloha they're all
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in like the same type of price range I feel like I get label conscious which is like so sillated to admit I don't
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like around here I feel like everyone's like in their Lulu or aloe oh you can't I'm not and there's nothing wrong with
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it also when I'm working out at home like I don't really give a yeah like I mean I don't know I just it's so
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silly I think like that label and maybe that's because we grew up with like the abercrombie's and like everything yeah I
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don't know we had like the freaking name across our chest like literally so we're
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just super conscious of it but you can't like leggings are so not that thing that you need to be worrying about I just
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want to feel good when I work out a hundred percent if whatever makes you feel like you're gonna get the best workout like if I worried about labels
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I'd be wearing a tight sports bra that gave me no support no like you have to I know it would not be pretty oh my God
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but now that I'm doing bar it's like more low impact so I can just do a sports bar on a shirt okay versus like
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my bra and like like less jumping yeah exactly the gals are like oh thanks for the break yeah exactly oh my God there's
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one like now that we're just talking about athleisure there's also like this other Trend kind of like this street
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where like at like casual look it's like I saw it online the other day it's like
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or I don't know how they were describing it but Jennifer Lawrence is wearing it it's
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like the lazy girl easy look where it's I hate to say this
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in his low rise jeans or low-rise pants get away from me with that it's low
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right like so that remember I talked about like my pants that like were low rise with the cargo yeah it's that
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situation and I saw it last the other night I saw it last night oh I know what you're talking about where it's low rise
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and it's like a little bit baggier I do know what you're talking about sit slow on the hips no and a vest
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oh okay a vet a sleeveless vest like what I was wearing like what I was wearing last week
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the beige the best that I wore no oh like a button-down vest oh button-down
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vest yeah like it's like oh I don't know oh I know what you're talking about like a tight like it has like the points yes
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exactly I don't know what you would call it it's a dust it's it's a vest yes it's like this Jennifer Lawrence yes gen Z is
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wearing that too yeah I have to find this or like a tank top or like those like corset type tops yeah yes
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and I just don't know I don't know if I want to buy a vest no
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um that's a cute I mean I feel like I could be into that if I found the right well you're a Blazer girl so yeah if
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it's my you're like oh my God I'm like oh larvest you're like a vest I just hold on I don't know like I what
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happened to our chunky sweaters I'm still wearing them I mean I mean like you know I don't know I guess I guess
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they're fine my problem is I care there's nothing wrong with a chunky sweater why did I say what happened to her chunky sweaters they're fine those
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are totally on my problem is I care too little about Trends and I apologize
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that's my issue oh my God yeah so I'm on The Zo report and saying Jennifer Lawrence signed off on this year's
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soothing vest Trend and it's nice yeah oh yeah yeah 100 can I wear that yeah
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you can wear that I'm gonna feel so not authentic I think you have to find that like there's
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different styles of the vests and like that outfit you could wear yeah with the jeans she has Adidas on there you go
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um you have to stop worrying about the trends and you have to start thinking about what you feel good in uh I just I
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don't I'm gonna be honest I'm not gonna feel good in a vest okay so then don't get it I'll eat my words if I do when I
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go try things on it's like oh try to agree in this fast I just I know I'm not gonna no one feels good in low rise
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people do who pays just orbo she was she's influencer who's that an Implement
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just that what does she influence she's from summer house okay that's why I don't know her oh okay I was like it had to be somewhere from she wears those
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pants she looks great I mean people do Remy Bader wore something like that something similar to that on her social
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she looked great it just really depends because like she probably felt comfortable in it like how many stairs
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are they walking I just need to know are they running to the subway like yeah that's not
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conducive they're not the subway I know I know we did it what underwear
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are you wearing when you wear a low rise I don't I'm I only wear high rise I have no they're
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wearing underwear problem maybe not I know like these are I don't
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know I'm not prepared for this low rise should stay stay away I remember wearing
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them in like seventh grade and that was the last time I wore them my mom's gonna make fun of me when she listens to this because she's gonna be like remember
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when I used to say like you're gonna like are you comfortable in your underwear yeah nice thanks Mom well I
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remember when I used to wear low rise and Degrassi was a thing and Manny like had her thong showing so I thought that
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was cool oh no were you a whale Taylor yeah but not not like it was tasteful
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whale tail no um it wasn't like a hundred percent it was only like when I bent down and stuff
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but I would like hide it but like when I bent down remember you had it like if you had lower versions you had to shimmy
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and make sure your paint would hold on to your pants do you remember holding on to your pants to pick up things
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yeah I mean no because I wanted to show my oh I didn't was that not a trend you
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participated in I also didn't wear maybe this is TMI but I also didn't wear a thong when I was like in high school and
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stuff oh I also went to a Catholic all-girls school where I wore a uniform so yes but on the weekends
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and stuff I would wear like low-rise jeans no I was in my sweatpants oh okay I was in my basketball like my Champion
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basketball sweatpants and my wow I was chilling oh I was in low-rise jeans and
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halter tops and belly shirts and in college I was wearing more like crop
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tops and you know many of those mini skirts what were they tube skirts oh
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bandage dress yeah those but no in high school I was like college was the best
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because you had roommates and you can all just swap clothes yeah it was the best time for clothing because you'd
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never have to worry about repeating outfits because you'd all just wear each other it was the best of times it was the worst of times and now here we are
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trying to figure out what the heck is going on with our clothes we're gonna figure it out I think next steps next
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steps from this you're gonna try and figure out a capsule wardrobe I am I'm gonna go shopping I'm gonna try some
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things on I'm gonna read up a little bit on the pear shape and The Hourglass shape I think even though could be
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controversial and like everyone's sure what they want to wear I want to know if it's good for my body it's more of a guide than a rule right right I also
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just speaking of guide than a rule I think a rule is you should just wear comfortable bras yes I don't wear bras
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anymore with underwire I do sports bras only oh yeah sports bars are so comfortable I know and I know like I
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have a big chest but that's just what yeah the underwire just cuts me I can't do it anymore yeah what kind of bras are
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you wearing right now I'm wearing a sports bra um but I wear sports bra I also wear
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third love bras which I really like I've tried Adore Me are those all underwire
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um no my my third love are on yes my third love our underwire okay I just bought them I was having some raw
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problems with my Victoria's Secret push-up Ross like what the heck no can't
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do that not like this generation oh my God I am oh stop it this generation no they like go out without any Brawn oh
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wow the whole free of the nipple thing is big and alive and well here does anyone not have big boobs anymore like
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what oh they're all so confused I don't get it how how all of gen Z just doesn't
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have big boobs I don't think they have nipples either like it's just I don't know what it is they just all go out
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braless I do I need I need answers I do me too what bra are you guys wearing I'm
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gonna ask a gen Z okay they're gonna be like what do you mean bra yeah we wear tank tops
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that's what Jesse sounds like I don't know why they sound like that but um yeah no third love is really good and
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then adore me I've had a few bras from them but I was uncomfortable which led me to and those were come on no
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underwire okay I liked them for a while but I think my body has just been changing and so I needed the underwire I
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feel supported in an underwire bra okay but I like a sports bra I get I get why
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you feel comfortable like supported and I it's not that sports bras give me the
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most support or like lift but I just I like it hurts me like it hurts my shoulders physically to wear a like real
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bra no I understand that after a while I get uncomfortable yeah I can't wait to take there is no better feeling taking
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off your bra taking off your pants taking off your bra that's the first thing I do when I get home me too I take off my clothes and get changed and get
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changed leggings yes immediately shorts immediately yeah you don't want to be wearing my clothes anymore oh it's the
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best also outdoor clothes you can't put those on the couch right no whatever let's do that yeah I know and I feel me
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right outdoor clothes okay well this has been a rant of our clothing crisis I think
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it's it's helped me okay I feel better I feel encouraged to go try some clothes
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on make your capsule wardrobe make my capsule wardrobe maybe try some new
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Styles I'm gonna get some new workout clothes from fabletics yeah I'm gonna I'll send you my I wonder if I get a
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code maybe maybe you do yeah I'll take a look okay um my mom's been dying for me to try fabletics oh really yeah so
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you can use your mom's code like you know when you're for a friend no she has like a store near her oh yeah maybe she
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could go with her mom or something yeah maybe but I I would like the subscription idea it's nice it is nice
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it's exciting too like getting a package at home who doesn't love a package at home yeah so no it's good I'm gonna take
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a look at my closet maybe transition some things out and just be like okay I'm gonna spend a little bit of
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this month's check get myself some clothes for fall if it's messing with
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your happiness then it's important and you should get new clothes that's true I think I also have to like work a little
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bit on like this body yeah dysmorphia thing I've been exercising more and I'm not saying like you need to do this or
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like you should but like me personally like I'm trying to get back in shape and like feel better about myself and the thing is it's like whatever helps
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you feel good yeah you know like you could be the same size but if you're working out then you feel better it's
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true you know what I mean like it's just whatever makes you feel like your best self so all right make sure you do that
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you're into a capsule wardrobe bam yeah I'm going to find some resources now I
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have a lot of work to do I'm Gonna Keep wearing my blazers well lucky for you a Blazer apparently is timeless I'm the
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one with the like I've always been like this too my mom's like you didn't want to wear jackets you didn't want it like
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I really wear sweatshirts like I love a I love an over thing denim jackets Blazers like whatever I'm wearing now
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this like sheer thing like layer Dimension yeah I really do like I can't just wear like a shirt and jeans I need
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to add something usually I always rebelled against like tradition like I'd never like I just didn't like the whole
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like formal look um and I think that's the thing it's like I wanted to be like that more like
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casual yeah yeah I get that you know yeah and I like to be a little like slightly yellow like I wish I had just
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looked like Meghan Markle all the time yeah but it's a little too formal I didn't wow okay
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yeah I didn't realize that yeah okay I want to like be like
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like a little I want the accessories to be my flare and then my this is actually a good exercise I want my accessories to
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be like the Sparkle and like the elevated piece okay I want my actual clothes to be comfortable and like kind
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of down to earth like chill okay yeah so you want your accessories to be the focal point your jewelry to stand out
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more but you want to be like casual yeah okay that's what I'm comfortable in
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great let's build it you found it I did she did it we did a Joe we did it we did
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it Joe all right well I'm glad we talked I'm glad we talked to you I feel so much
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better I came in hot you came in hot you've calmed down you've taken breaths yeah I did I wonder if anyone else feels
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this way so if you feel this way about your clothing do you have any solutions like Trends you're loving Trends are
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hating please write to me I need help I need help okay I need suggestions I need
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this glad we talk Community to help me feel better about fall okay clothing all
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right in general yeah yeah okay okay all right do you need anything from the listeners
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um if you have any workout clothing suggestions for bigger chests and just
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curvier girls in general let me know all right I think that's where I struggle those workout clothes
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um someone's you can talk about it real review eventually yeah I think we should wrap this one up yeah and you can follow
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know and maybe we'll get it in the trendy capsule wardrobe thing that's our Timeless yeah all right talk
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to you later bye bye [Music]
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